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I wanted to share my story has I go along with my
journey, in hopes to help you understand why this is such a special gift to give someone.

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Utlrasound




He looks great at 13 weeks. Everything with the baby was great, he keep waving at us and he had the hiccups. He was moving around in circles, it was neat to see him move like that and I couldn't feel him doing summer salts.

They did find a fibroid tumor in my uterus, it is very common. The only reason I am sharing is because I wanted everyone to have a little information on it. Here is some information that I found on http://americanpregnancy.org/. I hope with this post you can learn about this and understand that word tumor does not always need to be scary. I will update when I see my doctor again.

Fibroid tumors are usually undetected non-cancerous masses that grow in the uterus. There are several types of fibroids found in the uterus, and it is common for women to have multiple fibroids of various sizes. In most cases, fibroid tumors are painless. Fibroids may also be referred to as myomaleiomyomaleiomyomata, and fibromyoma.

What Causes Fibroids In The Uterus?

A definitive cause of fibroids is unknown, but they appear to be related to estrogen. This relationship between fibroids and estrogen is known because tumors grow when taking birth control pills containing estrogen and during pregnancy when more hormones are released. Following menopause, when estrogen is no longer produced, tumors tend to shrink and even disappear.

What Are The Different Types Of Fibroids In The Uterus?

Fibroids are classified according to their location within the uterus. There are four primary types of fibroids:
Subserosal Fibroids: Fibroids that develop in the outer portion of the uterus and continue to grow outward. These typically do not affect a woman’s menstrual flow but can cause pain due to their size and pressure on other organs.
Intramural Fibroids:Fibroids that develop within the uterine wall and expand, which makes the uterus feel larger than normal. Symptoms associated with intramural fibroids are heavy menstrual flow, pelvic pain, back pain, frequent urination, and pressure. This is the most common type of fibroids.
Submucosal fibroids: A type of fibroid that develops just under the lining of the uterine cavity. This is the least common type of fibroid; however these types of fibroids commonly cause symptoms such as heavy prolonged menstrual periods.
Pedunculated fibroids: This type of fibroid occurs when the fibroid grows on a stalk. Pedunculated fibroids can either develop in the uterus or grow on the outside of the uterus.
It is common for a woman to have multiple fibroids, and it is possible that she has one or all of these types of fibroids.

How Are Uterine Fibroids Diagnosed?

Fibroids are usually discovered when your health care provider performs a pelvic examination and feels lumps in your uterus. To make an accurate diagnosis, your health care provider will perform either a CT scan or an ultrasound. These are non-invasive procedures that allow the viewing of your internal organs.

What Is The Health Concerns Related To Uterine Fibroids?

Fibroid tumors may not be a problem for some women, and in some cases treatment may be directed at managing the symptoms. Fibroid tumors may cause problems for women who wish to get pregnant because the tumors may be growing all along the uterine wall making implantation of a fertilized egg doubtful. Fibroid tumors may also cause some women to experience pelvic pain and heavy bleeding.

What Are The Treatments For Uterine Fibroids?

If there are multiple fibroids, it will be hard to determine which fibroid(s) are causing your symptoms. In many cases, there will be small fibroids that are undetected, so you should anticipate having multiple fibroids when discussing treatment options.
The selection of the appropriate procedure is determined between you and your health care provider, but the following factors contribute to the recommended approach:
  • Size and location
  • Severity of symptoms
  • Childbearing plans
Severe symptoms often lead to the recommendation of a hysterectomy. Each of the following procedures serves as a treatment option, particularly for women who still wish to have children:
  • Myomectomy: A surgical procedure done to remove only the tumors from the uterus. This procedure is more dangerous than a hysterectomy, but it is an option if you still desire to get pregnant.
  • Embolization: This is a surgical procedure that involves cutting off the blood supply to the fibroid. This is a common procedure when symptoms are not severe.
  • Myolysis: A procedure which uses electric shock to shrink the fibroids.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

We are entering the 2nd trimester

I am so happy to say we have made it to the point of stopping all meds!!! We will be 12 weeks on Wednesday, I am so happy for this little guys family! We are the 3rd of the way to handing him to his Mom and Dad!

Friday, May 2, 2014

He is on the move.....



Its so amazing how you can see babies moving on a ultrasound but can not feel it, 9 weeks and 2 days!




Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Today is my first OB appointment

I am excited to have made it this far. We are 8 weeks tomorrow! I love my Doctor and I know he is going to be supper excited that I am pregnant with this special baby! 

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Sunday, April 6, 2014

2nd Beta and ultrasound!

We are pregnant!!!

2nd Beta is 115!

I had a 5 week ultrasound

It's a Boy!!!

Monday, March 31, 2014

Update for 2014


How is everyone? I am doing good. I know its been awhile since I have updated everyone.

Our 3rd try did not take either, This one was very hard for me to accepted, we got through the holidays and planned the 4th transfer in Jan. Sad to say but that one didn't take either and that was the last female embryo. At this point there were only male embryos left, 5 of them. We were able to move very quickly to the 5th transfer which took place March 19th. As of now everything is looking good, we have some positive home tests, and had a positive blood test, I had gone in today for my 2nd blood test and now are waiting to hear about the results. 




While we wait I really wanted to share about the medications I have had to take, this is the hardest part of surrogacy is the on and off of medications and the schedule of each one. I would like you to have a better understanding of what I have had to do up to this point.


  • I will start with the vagnial ultrasounds I have to have every 2 weeks till transfer to make sure my lining is thickening to make a good home for the embryo. Which at this point I have had at least 15 of these done since last May.  
  • The first Medication I have to start is Aygestin, I start this the 2nd day of my period and take for about 10 days.
  • About 3 days after the first ultrasound I start taking Lupron, this is a shot I have to do in my tummy for 22 days.
  • After my 2nd ultrasound I start baby Aspirin, once a day. I also start Delestrogen(another shot) This one I take once every 3 days in my upper-outer quadrant of my bottom.( if the pregnancy takes I will stay on the Aspirin and Delestrogen till 11 weeks pregnant, about then I will be on both for about 15 weeks)
  • Than I have my 3rd ultrasound, if that is good. Than I start a vaginally medication that I do 2 times each day.( if the pregnancy takes I will continue this till 11 weeks pregnant)
  • Six days before the transfer I start Medrol, 1st day I will take 6 pills at different times during the day, than each day it will go down by one.(This pills do not taste good, and make me feel icky)

With each transfer that did not take I would stop all meds at one time, it is a hard couple of days. After each transfer I have 72 hours of bedrest. At this point it has been very emotional and stressful. I have hope that this transfer is it for us, I cant wait to go through the pregnancy with my couple and see them with their baby boy in early Dec. 

Thank you all for the support and being here when I have really needed you!!